

Gay men and female pop stars have always had a special relationship. For decades, the latter have spoken to (and sometimes for) a demographic that has endured a great deal of prejudice and abuse, providing a mainstream voice (or at least outlet) for those who historically have had none in mainstream society. To adore a particular diva has been, at times, a means of building community, articulating a dangerous desire or simply making friends. But gay men also have plenty to offer their beloved divas: long renowned as tastemakers and trendsetters, gay men have increasingly become a sought-after demographic for the pop diva, more than one of whom has the Friends of Dorothy (and, especially, their dance clubs) to thank for her latest hit or, sometimes, her entire career.
Many a pop diva, therefore, has specifically sought to woo the gay male demographic. She may embrace big dance-pop beats or pen a flat-out coming-out anthem. She may submit to clubby remixes or preview her latest song
in an LGBT club. And lately, thanks in part to Lady Gaga and the disco divas who inspired her, the pop chanteuse may also find it not only possible, but necessary, to make her romance with gay men known to society as a whole.